Be sure to keep the humor lite, and never, NEVER, make fun of her picture.
4) As for the connection, be sure to quickly indicate that you have things in common with her.
That should convince you that there are many attractive women who are looking for men online. Women typically don't approach men in social settings.
They will signal their interest to you in many ways, but the actual "move" will have to be made by you.
If you read the profile, can make a light joke out of something she reveals, compliment her and share something in common, you have a strong chance of hearing back from her.
* If you are out with her, and you do like her, a great compliment is: "You know, your pictures are great, but you are much more attractive in real life." This way, you help her relax.For the purposes of the first contact, begin a conversation with her by indicating that you share commonalities.To summarize, in the first email you want to cover these three things: humor, a compliment and make a connection.Let's cover some of the basic must's to successful internet dating: 1) The most important thing to have on your profile is good pictures. Initial attraction is so critical when beginning a relationship.If it is not there, the two people will never come together.